Friday, August 23, 2013

Be who you want to be (with exception)


"You can beeeee who you want to be!" Come on, moms you know you want to belt out the rest of this Disney Jr. song! "Be a pirate crew or royalty!"  Umm, wait. Do I want to encourage my children to be thieves? Because, basically that's what pirates are, right?

Think about it, the types of pirates that come to mind are:


We don't think of the more true to life unsavory pirates like this guy:



And it's highly unlikely that they'll become royalty given A) They weren't born into a royal family that we know of (still holding out hope that we'll hit the ancestral jackpot someday) and B)We live in Midwestern USA, nowhere near a future royal son or daughter in law.

I have the privilege and honor of being a mommy to an all boy Boy and a sometimes girly, sometimes tomboy Girl. So when baby Girl has tv time and Disney Jr songs come on, we laugh and sing together. Most of the time I have forgotten them in a few days, but ths summer the Pirates and Princess theme song has gotten stuck in my head more than once. So, now that I really think about the lyrics I understand the idea is for kids to dream and pretend. But in my head I think, 'you can be who you want to be, with exception.'